The Unbecoming Archive
Reflections on wholeness, unbecoming, and humanness written from inside the process.
Sometimes when I wake up, I just lie in bed and listen to the silence.
I sleep with earplugs, so the silence is loud in my ears. Dense. Almost humming. I can hear my heart beating. I can hear my breath moving in and out. I can hear my thoughts before they’ve fully taken shape. I can hear the swirli...
I was rubbing my son’s belly the other day while he had a stomach bug, watching his eyes track the room with that unmistakable softness babies have—the kind that feels both ancient and entirely new at once. There is something about looking into a baby’s eyes that stops thought mid-sentence. Not beca...
Lately, I’ve been aware of a particular kind of fatigue. It’s not the sharp exhaustion that comes from a single, difficult event, but the low-grade, pervasive weariness of sustained effort without a pause. It feels like having just finished a long race only to realize you are still on the track, and...
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