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Most of us aren’t suffering because we’re broken or doing life wrong.
We’re suffering because we’ve been taught to relate to ourselves through a paradigm that turns normal human experience into a problem to solve.
The Seven Principles of Unbecoming are not rules to follow or beliefs to adopt. They are perspective shifts that quietly change how you relate to your inner world, your story, and the unfolding of your life.
This course is for you if you’ve done “the work,” gained insight, built awareness and still feel a subtle exhaustion underneath it all. If growth has started to feel like another performance. If you sense that something truer exists beneath the constant effort to improve.
Rather than asking you to become more, this course invites you to see differently.
Each principle softens a core assumption most of us carry:
- that life should make sense,
- that healing should be linear,
- that discomfort means something has gone wrong,
- that wholeness is earned.
What emerges instead is not certainty, but relief.
Not answers, but space.
Not a better version of you, but a quieter relationship with who you already are.
The Seven Principles of Unbecoming
- Embrace Your Inner Contradictions: Learn to hold opposing truths at the same time and find peace in your own complexity.
- Move Beyond “Good vs. Bad”: Release the exhausting habit of judgment and learn to dance with the full, beautiful spectrum of life’s experiences.
- Build a Bridge to Your Past: Understand how the echoes of your past show up in your present, and learn to relate to your younger self with compassion.
- Access Your Inherent Wholeness: Dismantle the pervasive myth of the “broken self” and connect with the unbreakable, capital-S Self that is already within you.
- Escape the Trap of “Not Ready Yet”: Discover the profound power of the “next right thing” and reclaim your capacity to move forward, right now.
- Find Wisdom in Impermanence: Learn to ride the waves of change with more ease and less resistance, finding stability in the midst of life’s natural flow.
- Cultivate Deep Interconnectedness: Dissolve the painful illusion of the separate self and experience the profound peace of belonging to the whole.
A Supportive Experience
- 7 In-Depth Learning Modules: A comprehensive exploration of each of the seven principles.
- 14 Audio Lessons: Each module contains two lessons—one to teach the core concept and one to guide you through its integration. All delivered in a warm, conversational style (20-25 mins each).
- Guided Workbooks for Each Module: Downloadable PDF workbooks with journaling prompts and reflection questions to help you personalize and embody the material.
- Experiential Exercises & Somatic Practices: This isn’t just intellectual work. You’ll be guided through meditations and exercises to help you unravel.
- Lifetime Access: This course is yours forever. Return to the material anytime.
