This isn't six courses. 

Most of us aren’t suffering because we’re broken or doing life wrong.

The Full Process of Unbecoming includes all six phases of the work, offered together for those who feel the pull to move through the arc as a whole.

Not because you need to rush.

Not because more is better.

Because sometimes it helps to see the entire terrain, even if you walk it slowly.

This bundle is for people who sense that what they’re experiencing isn’t a single issue to fix, but a deeper pattern of striving, identity, and longing for wholeness. People who feel that something about the way we’ve been taught to “heal” or “improve” is subtly off.

The Process of Unbecoming doesn’t promise resolution or arrival. It offers a different relationship with yourself—one that softens effort, honors the nervous system, and trusts that what you’re looking for doesn’t need to be earned.

Each phase builds on the last, but none are linear requirements. You can move forward, revisit earlier phases, or return again when life changes—as it inevitably will.

This is a spiral, not a staircase.

 The Full Process of Unbecoming

The Full Course Bundle brings together the complete body of work that makes up The Process of Unbecoming. It’s designed for those who sense that their questions about the nervous system, identity, and meaning are interconnected—part of a larger inquiry into how they’ve learned to relate to themselves over time.

Rather than offering a single solution or a linear path, this bundle holds a sequence of explorations that can be moved through thoughtfully and at your own pace. Each course focuses on a different layer of the process, offering language, frameworks, and practices that support clarity, self-understanding, and ongoing integration.

Included in the bundle:

• The Foundation: The Seven Principles of Unbecoming
  An orienting course that introduces the core principles underlying this work—wholeness, non-linearity, capacity, and change—offering a different lens through which to understand healing and identity.

• Phase One: Awareness — Wake Up to Your Self
  A focus on noticing how you currently organize experience. This course explores patterns of perception, belief, and reaction, helping you see what has been operating in the background of your life.

• Phase Two: Shedding — Unravel Who You Are Not
  An exploration of adaptation, protection, and identity. This phase supports the gentle loosening of roles, stories, and strategies that once made sense but may no longer fit.

• Phase Three: Alignment — Navigating Your Inner Compass
  A deeper look at discernment, values, and internal orientation. This course helps clarify what feels true and meaningful beneath external expectations and internalized shoulds.

• Phase Four: Embodiment — Sensing Your Innate Wisdom
  An exploration of the body and nervous system as sources of information and guidance. This phase focuses on developing a more attuned, respectful relationship with the body as lived experience.

• Phase Five: Integration — Unbecoming Again
  A course centered on continuity rather than completion. It explores how this work is lived over time—through change, repetition, and return—without the pressure to arrive anywhere final.

This process is about developing clarity—about how you came to be who you are, what has shaped your patterns of protection and connection, and how to remain in relationship with yourself with less force and more honesty.

The Full Course Bundle is best approached slowly. It’s something to return to, revisit, and engage with over time, especially during periods of transition or reorientation. There is no requirement to move through it in a particular order or on a particular timeline. The invitation is simply to stay with the work as it unfolds.