The Unbecoming Archive
Reflections on wholeness, unbecoming, and humanness written from inside the process.
What happens when the field designed to support the human soul slowly begins to reject it?
This question has followed me for years, largely because I live on both sides of it. I am a therapist. I have been deeply helped by therapy—by one therapist in particular who helped stabilize my relationships...
There are moments when something from the past rises with the same intensity it once had, and the mind rushes to explain it as regression, as though time were a straight line and you somehow walked backward on it, as though progress were something that could be undone by a single reaction, memor
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Some episodes are unstructured reflections. Some are carefully scripted. Others are more educational or exploratory. Whatever form they take, they aren’t designed to be anything in particular. They’re honest expressions of where I am—thinking, noticing, questioning, and moving through this prcoess in real time.
I’m your host, Lacey K. Kelly, and each week we explore another facet of the process of unbecoming as something lived through relationships, seasons of change, moments of clarity, and moments of uncertainty.
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