The Unbecoming Archive
Reflections on wholeness, unbecoming, and humanness written from inside the process.
Sometimes I don’t realize I’m burned out until it’s already too late.
It’s less like noticing and more like waking up from a dizzying dream to find myself completely empty and suddenly on the edge of explosion.
This happened a few weeks ago with my husband. Everything was fine—until it wasn’t.
I ...
We are living in a time where more people than ever are in therapy, talking about mental health, and learning how to understand themselves.
Yet, many of them still feel like something is missing because some forms of suffering aren’t problems to solve.
They’re expressions of being human.
When tho...
I’ve been noticing something lately in the way people talk about relationships.
There’s a tension in it. A kind of tightness.
We talk a lot now about values, needs, and boundaries — and those things absolutely matter. Values shape how we live. Needs create vulnerability. Boundaries create safety a...
The Unbecoming Hub Podcast
This podcast is a place where I live the process alongside you.
Some episodes are unstructured reflections. Some are carefully scripted. Others are more educational or exploratory. Whatever form they take, they aren’t designed to be anything in particular. They’re honest expressions of where I am—thinking, noticing, questioning, and moving through this prcoess in real time.
I’m your host, Lacey K. Kelly, and each week we explore another facet of the process of unbecoming as something lived through relationships, seasons of change, moments of clarity, and moments of uncertainty.
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